Have you walked through the process of building a house?
The house we live in now is our 3rd home and the 3rd house we watched builders put together from the ground up.
Before they even broke ground, we spent hours getting to know the layout of this house. We visited the model repeatedly, making notes and snapping pictures of every corner. I poured over house plans, figuring out space for every piece of furniture, while we stayed several months in a little townhome we called, The Waiting Place.
Just a couple years after we settled in here, we felt like God wanted us to let this house go.
It didn’t make sense. Let go of our dream house, when our dream had just come true? So we listed the house while our littlest was still a baby, and we kept it wonderfully clean for showings. 🙂 But after most of a year, we again felt peace–this time, about taking it off the market.
Years later, we wonder if that whole process was about becoming willing to let go of something we loved a whole lot. We still don’t feel certain we’ll stay here, in this house.
The truth is, whether we’re in a home we consider a long-term plan or the in-between, shouldn’t we all feel a little unsettled here?
This world is not our home. We’re foreigners, passing through. But how many of us live as if that’s really true? I’m guilty of trying to create some sort of heaven on earth, starting right here within these walls.
And speaking of these walls, how amazing is it to remember that the Lord calls us–believers–His house?
And we are His house, if indeed we hold firmly to our confidence, and the hope in which we glory. Hebrews 3:6b
As the house of God, we are God’s people and members of His household (Ephesians 2:19). He lives in each of us and also builds us up together as a spiritual house, the church, where He dwells among us.
You also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ. 1 Peter 2:5
In the Old Testament, the house of God refers to Israel or the temple. When Solomon finished building His temple, He raised his hands to heaven and dedicated it to the Lord, in awe that the uncontainable God of the universe would choose to dwell alongside human beings.
“But will God really dwell on earth with humans?
The heavens, even the highest heavens, cannot contain you.
How much less this temple I have built!” 2 Chronicles 6:18
Yes, the Lord desires to dwell among His people. Yes, we are now His dwelling place, if we hold firmly to our confidence and our hope in Him.
But wait. IF? So what if we don’t hold firmly? Do we lose our place in His house?
This is not about losing salvation. It’s about proving our commitment to Him.
If we are truly in Christ, we will hold Him fast. Our commitment to Him will be proven over time.
We prove we are his house if we continue to hold firmly to Him.
Speaking of holding firmly, is there anything else you need to let go of?
What are the other things for you, the ones that get in the way of your trust and dependence on the Lord alone? Isn’t it time to pry open those hands and offer them to the Lord?
Because at some point, nothing else remains. Nothing but Christ is worth holding fast.
softball25 says
Wow, great reminder of where our home really is. We get so stuck here because this is all we have really known. You always get us thinking outside the box. Thank you!
Angela Parlin says
You’re so right–it’s all we’ve ever known. It’s so hard to think past this place, because it’s all we see, at least with our eyes. 🙂 Thank you!
danisejurado says
Beautiful post my sweet friend!!
Yes! I often feel unsettled … as much as I enjoy living this life God gave to me here in the land of the living… I know I am not yet home. Someday we will enter into our true eternal home in heaven and then our soul will know true fulfillment.
Blessings to you!
Angela Parlin says
Thank you, Danise! I like what you said, “I know I am not yet home.” But one day, our soul will be Fulfilled…and that reminds me of a great little book I read not too long ago. 🙂
betsydecruz says
What an interesting story about putting your house on the market. Thanks for this reminder about how this is not actually our home. You’d think it would be easy to remember for me–since I’ve sublet our apartment in Turkey, never bought there in 15 years, to live 9 months in Dallas–but it’s not easy to remember.
Today, I’m seeking to let go of control! Need to give God the reigns.
Angela Parlin says
You’re right, Betsy…and it’s interesting to me to think of this concept of feeling settled here, in light of your journey with living in temporary homes. Thanks for this input!